In this insightful episode, Brenda Darden Wilkerson sits down with Lareina Yee to explore the power of bold moves, the hidden costs of withholding negative feedback, and the realities of navigating a career while managing personal responsibilities. They discuss how career-defining opportunities often come with a 25% skill stretch—what Yee calls “big, bold moves”—and how seizing them can fast-track growth, even if it means switching companies. One striking insight is that women, regardless of their manager’s gender, tend to receive less negative feedback, which can hinder professional development. Yee encourages women to proactively seek out constructive criticism and offer permission for candor because real growth comes from knowing your blind spots.
The conversation also delves into the idea of “micro-failures,” the daily stumbles that offer meaningful lessons if approached with curiosity and resilience. Yee and Wilkerson reflect on the complex challenges women face as caregivers and professionals, emphasizing that it’s okay to adjust your pace throughout your career. Whether returning from a long parental leave or shifting gears due to life circumstances, women can and should reenter the workforce on their own terms. The episode wraps with a powerful call to build a personal “board of directors”—a trusted group of supporters who offer honest feedback, perspective, and encouragement. It’s a reminder that no one succeeds alone, and that long-term impact is built not just through ambition, but through support, reflection, and courage.
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